November 20, 2009

Going Public... Part 2

Thank you all for your feedback and advice following this post.  I took everything you said to heart and thought.  A lot.

The more I thought; the more I realized that I don't need to change a single thing.  Would going public mean I could (in theory, mind you) become a famous blogger one day?  Yep...in a planet far, far away that might be a possiblity. 

However, as much as  I like to know that someone is reading what I have to say, I don't like being the center of attention.  It just isn't me.  I love all of you.  Right now, I don't think I need to tell friends and family that I blog for fun. (Fine; it's bordering on obsession.)  The people that really matter to me are already reading my blog, or are at least aware of its existance.

I don't want to have to sensor myself.  I never purposely set out to hurt anyone's feelings - but from time to time, I need to vent and be selfish.

I'm happy to get new followers - but all you fabulous ladies are enough.  Seeing comments from you makes me smile; I don't need anything more.  :-)

15 comments:

  1. Good for you....I know from personal experience that the first time you want to say something rude...it's all "dang it! I wish I wouldn't have told so-and-so that this blog existed". Excellent choice!

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  2. I almost gave in and confessed to my blog recently... but I just couldn't do it. Too much at stake!

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  3. You have to do what is comfortable for you....

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  4. a. How is it possible that I missed the first post?
    b. Very few people that I actually know know about my blog. Well, they know about it, they just don't know where it is at. :)I like it that way!

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  5. I think letting things go which ever way they go in time is the way to go Cole!! Great choice!

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  6. Glad you were able to make a choice either way and feel good about it.

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  7. gald you made a decision just right for you :)
    have a great weekend hun!

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  8. Glad to have helped, I think you made the right choice!!

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  9. For what it's worth, I kind of think you're "famous" anyway. 187 followers is pretty darn good. :-)

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  10. I feel the same way. A few of my friends in real life read it but they live far away. I really do not want my whole family reading it either. This is fun for me and I enjoy it.. I am glad I can still read you..

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  11. Good decision Cole! You wanna keep it real and that's what I love!

    Justine :o )

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  12. I'm glad your blog is here to read! I very much enjoy it!

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  13. Good choice!
    Kisses and hugs
    Lorenza

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  14. I agree with you! Sometimes I wish I had never let my family in on my blog because it cut's down on my being able to vent when needed. Then, silly me connected it to my facebook, which I am seriously thinking of un-connecting. It's definitely your blog so do as YOU want and just enjoy!

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